Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

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  • Author:Melissa Febos
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Summary

AN INSTANT NATIONAL BESTSELLER

Memoir meets craft masterclass in this “daring, honest, psychologically insightful” exploration of how we think and write about intimate experiences—“a must read for anybody shoving a pen across paper or staring into a screen or a past" (Mary Karr)。

In this bold and exhilarating mix of memoir and master class, Melissa Febos tackles the emotional, psychological, and physical work of writing intimately while offering an utterly fresh examination of the storyteller’s life and the questions which run through it。

How might we go about capturing on the page the relationships that have formed us? How do we write about our bodies, their desires and traumas? What does it mean for an author’s way of writing, or living, to be dismissed as “navel-gazing”—or else hailed as “so brave, so raw”? And to whom, in the end, do our most intimate stories belong?

Drawing on her own path from aspiring writer to acclaimed author and writing professor—via addiction and recovery, sex work and Harvard night school—Melissa Febos has created a captivating guide to the writing life, and a brilliantly unusual exploration of subjectivity, privacy, and the power of divulgence。 Candid and inspiring, Body Work will empower readers and writers alike, offering ideas—and occasional notes of caution—to anyone who has ever hoped to see themselves in a story。

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Reviews

Avery Cameron

3。5I’m defínelo not the target audience but I can appreciate good writing and underlying storytelling when I see it。

Julia

I'm the biggest Melissa Febos fan, what can I say??? I love writers writing about writing。 This idea of "I write myself in order to know myself" and writing yourself into being resonates with me so deeply。 Recently I've been thinking about "trauma porn," in entertainment and Febos here adds a lot of nuance and criticality to to this conversation, while being so transparent about her own self, work, and evolution。 "Body Work" is the critical theory I wish we read in my fancy college courses。 Read I'm the biggest Melissa Febos fan, what can I say??? I love writers writing about writing。 This idea of "I write myself in order to know myself" and writing yourself into being resonates with me so deeply。 Recently I've been thinking about "trauma porn," in entertainment and Febos here adds a lot of nuance and criticality to to this conversation, while being so transparent about her own self, work, and evolution。 "Body Work" is the critical theory I wish we read in my fancy college courses。 Read it! Talk with me about it! 。。。more

Niko

I thought I would absolutely love this book and was so excited to read it。 There are some good tidbits in it, but I felt like a lot of it was filler。 I was pretty bored with it。 Sometimes I really didn't know what point she was making and I think all 4 chapters could have been 10 pages or less, and would have worked better。 Honestly I wouldn't recommend this to other writers unless they were of a particular niche, and even then, there are better craft books out there。 I was left unsatisfied。 Sor I thought I would absolutely love this book and was so excited to read it。 There are some good tidbits in it, but I felt like a lot of it was filler。 I was pretty bored with it。 Sometimes I really didn't know what point she was making and I think all 4 chapters could have been 10 pages or less, and would have worked better。 Honestly I wouldn't recommend this to other writers unless they were of a particular niche, and even then, there are better craft books out there。 I was left unsatisfied。 Sorry to be the first meh review but it is what it is。 。。。more

Sandy

As someone who wants to write confessional humor essays, this was a helpful book of advice and thoughts on personal narrative writing from a feminist gaze。Her overall opinions in this book I wholeheartedly agree with。 Her thoughts on "navel-gazing" and writing about sex are not at all new to me。 They're some of my favorite topics to talk about。 I think our lives are worth documenting and talking about。 I think there are so many ways to write about sex in literature that isn't meant to be pornogr As someone who wants to write confessional humor essays, this was a helpful book of advice and thoughts on personal narrative writing from a feminist gaze。Her overall opinions in this book I wholeheartedly agree with。 Her thoughts on "navel-gazing" and writing about sex are not at all new to me。 They're some of my favorite topics to talk about。 I think our lives are worth documenting and talking about。 I think there are so many ways to write about sex in literature that isn't meant to be pornographic, for the male gaze, or just poorly written。 Sex, and writing about sex, is a spectrum。 I think we're just hitting the tip of the iceberg on writing about sex。 It doesn't have to be taboo or fanciful。Her prompt "write your sexual life story in five sentences" really could go on and on forever and still have many different fresh and real perspectives。I love the chapter on writing about other people and the lessons she learned。 The part about cruelty was very insightful and something I need to be cognizant of should I ever start writing again。 。。。more

Emma Burger

Decent but overrated IMO?? And by overrated, I just mean the rave Goodreads ratings might’ve set the bar a little too high。

Jaylen

Body Work is an excellent defense of personal narrative and the potential for healing through writing。 Febos argues in favor of navel-gazing and confession, and gives advice on how to write better sex and about others。 I’m not a writer but I took away a lot as a reader。 It reminded me I need to read more memoir (and was fun to think about in relation to autofiction 🙃)。 Great on audio as well, narrated by Febos!

Brian

I recently took a memoir writing class online, and Catapult was one of the websites recommended to us to visit and continue to learn about writing and memoirs。 It was on Catapult that I became acquainted with Melissa Febos。I decided to order the book to continue exploring the craft of memoir, and this will definitely be a book I will continue to refer to as I continue to write。There is a lot to unpack in this slim volume - writing, psychology, religion, relationships。Like someone else said, I wi I recently took a memoir writing class online, and Catapult was one of the websites recommended to us to visit and continue to learn about writing and memoirs。 It was on Catapult that I became acquainted with Melissa Febos。I decided to order the book to continue exploring the craft of memoir, and this will definitely be a book I will continue to refer to as I continue to write。There is a lot to unpack in this slim volume - writing, psychology, religion, relationships。Like someone else said, I will definitely be checking out the rest of Febos' work, and look forward to doing so。 。。。more

Jackie

I’m pretty sure this book changed my life a little, and the intent behind my writing a lot。

Morgan

Some of the most gorgeous writing on writing I've ever read。 I wish I could go back in time and give this to myself as I was grappling with my very first pieces of creative nonfiction and tell her that it's all going to be okay。 Some of the most gorgeous writing on writing I've ever read。 I wish I could go back in time and give this to myself as I was grappling with my very first pieces of creative nonfiction and tell her that it's all going to be okay。 。。。more

Sara

I really enjoyed this book! As someone deeply interested in the power of personal narrative to transform, every essay had something new for me to think about。 Many times, my brain was like ‘oh, wow, that’s a good way to think about it。’ The last essay was especially interesting to me。 As someone who was raised in a religious household, but hasn’t necessarily found herself there, I loved thinking of the process of writing and making art as divine。 For anyone interested in writing about the self, I really enjoyed this book! As someone deeply interested in the power of personal narrative to transform, every essay had something new for me to think about。 Many times, my brain was like ‘oh, wow, that’s a good way to think about it。’ The last essay was especially interesting to me。 As someone who was raised in a religious household, but hasn’t necessarily found herself there, I loved thinking of the process of writing and making art as divine。 For anyone interested in writing about the self, or writing more broadly, run, don’t walk to this book! 。。。more

Alyssa Lentz

Really enjoyed this perspective on reflection and writing。 I found the commentary on why we often shy away from personal narrative and the way society talks about it really well-articulated。 Definitely interested to read more from this author!

Amy

Personal narrative is powerful and it has helped me in the past deal with my own complicated emotions。 Embracing this power is so important, but this book didn't feel like it was trying to remind the reader to do this。 Granted, the author does make it clear before the first essay that this book is about her。 Not a manual or a guide for the reader。 The issue was the memoir aspect was repetitive。Throughout the book, I felt like the same history was being rehashed and shoved down my throat in a sli Personal narrative is powerful and it has helped me in the past deal with my own complicated emotions。 Embracing this power is so important, but this book didn't feel like it was trying to remind the reader to do this。 Granted, the author does make it clear before the first essay that this book is about her。 Not a manual or a guide for the reader。 The issue was the memoir aspect was repetitive。Throughout the book, I felt like the same history was being rehashed and shoved down my throat in a slightly different ways each time。 I will admit that memoir, as a genre, is a complex for me。 As a reader, what right do I have to say which people should or should not write memoirs。 I have no right to dictate the content of this genre, yet as the consumer of this content I do have the right to my opinion。 For me the author's voice felt self-important, obnoxious and privileged which was off putting for me as reader。 。。。more

Tasha Seegmiller

From her experience as a professional dominatrix to one as a professor, Febos leans into the process of sharing an authentic story。 It’s a really powerful book (I underlined so much!)

Rachel Laverdiere

This is must-read material for anyone writing CNF or memoir。 Thanks to Melissa, I realize that I must be braver in my own writing。 To expose my innermost fears, shames and regrets not only so that I can be free of them but as a service to those who need to read about them。I have highlighted, earmarked and made notes in this book。 Sorry to horrify you, but how could I not? I will be reading Body Work again and again。 And then once more。 I realize I am blubbering, but you really need to read this This is must-read material for anyone writing CNF or memoir。 Thanks to Melissa, I realize that I must be braver in my own writing。 To expose my innermost fears, shames and regrets not only so that I can be free of them but as a service to those who need to read about them。I have highlighted, earmarked and made notes in this book。 Sorry to horrify you, but how could I not? I will be reading Body Work again and again。 And then once more。 I realize I am blubbering, but you really need to read this book! 。。。more

Karen Mcswain

This was an empowering read, full of vulnerability, insight, wisdom and generosity。 It spoke to the core of my queer, writerly self。 I’m so grateful that this book exists! Thank you, Melissa Febos。

Annagrace

The craft book I have been looking for! Rigorous and practical and wise。

Hannah Bae

As a writer, I felt that reading this book was an educational experience with a true master。

Bridget Sundin

This was part memoir and part writing workshop。 I’m taking a lot away in terms of writing the parts of your story you want to keep secret, but wanted a bit more from the book in terms of the title… such as em[BODY]ment or having a BODY or the BODY as an archive etc。 Still a strong book for anyone wanting to transform pain & trauma via writing。

Jennifer Louden

Best book I've ever read on personal narrative Best book I've ever read on personal narrative 。。。more

Crystal FL Girl

Pretty cool look behind the scenes of an author's process。I won the ARC for honest opinion Pretty cool look behind the scenes of an author's process。I won the ARC for honest opinion 。。。more

Ashley Paramo

Actual rating: 2。5 starsI wanted to like this book。 The cover immediately grabbed my attention and i devoured the book in just a few hours。 Sadly, I was disappointed。 While, it had some really good insights at the beginning, it often read like an academic text, which made it hard to understand at times。 But then it just got boring。 She tells us from the beginning that this is not a guide or manual。 She lets us know upfront that this is simply a book about how personal narrative has helped her。 S Actual rating: 2。5 starsI wanted to like this book。 The cover immediately grabbed my attention and i devoured the book in just a few hours。 Sadly, I was disappointed。 While, it had some really good insights at the beginning, it often read like an academic text, which made it hard to understand at times。 But then it just got boring。 She tells us from the beginning that this is not a guide or manual。 She lets us know upfront that this is simply a book about how personal narrative has helped her。 So I'm not shocked that there wasn't much for me in the book。 Still, with a title like that, I couldn't help but hope that the author would connect her experiences to the reader's own journey toward personal narrative。 This book, to be fair, was exactly what she said it would be: all about her。 Unfortunately, though, it didn't make for an interesting read。 。。。more

Lauren

Absolutely beautiful book on the power of personal narrative

Sian Lile-Pastore

This was really easy and pleasurable to read and I felt like it was my kind of thing。 Read it in a day, tho the last essay had me drifting a little。 Lots of interesting stuff, enjoyed the writing style tho also found it oddly surfacey?

Roberta Miceli

Good read about the author's insights into writing -- especially memoir writing。 Good read about the author's insights into writing -- especially memoir writing。 。。。more

Devin Redmond

What pulled me to 𝘉𝘰𝘥𝘺 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘬 were the words on the back cover, “Melissa Febos has created a captivating guide to the writing life…” ⁣After starting the book, I realized Febos is a very, very smart writer and has purposefully used writing her stories to free herself of the trauma of her past。 The book begins with an essay, “In Praise of Navel Gazing” in which some feel that traumatic stories are tiresome, but Febos says they’re survival stories, and they’re what is needed for transformation of the What pulled me to 𝘉𝘰𝘥𝘺 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘬 were the words on the back cover, “Melissa Febos has created a captivating guide to the writing life…” ⁣After starting the book, I realized Febos is a very, very smart writer and has purposefully used writing her stories to free herself of the trauma of her past。 The book begins with an essay, “In Praise of Navel Gazing” in which some feel that traumatic stories are tiresome, but Febos says they’re survival stories, and they’re what is needed for transformation of the writer and the reader。Febos says about 𝘉𝘰𝘥𝘺 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘬 and its purpose “undoing the narratives we’ve been taught about ourselves, and how that project might make us not only better writers and lovers, but more human to ourselves。” (Oprah Daily)⁣I don’t think I am going to stop thinking about this book for a long time。 I am trying to think about how I can absorb it in a way that will make me a better mom to my 15-year old daughter。 ⁣: Whereas writing was once an exercise in transcription, it has become an exercise in transformation。 I urge you to hold your own life and work to this higher standard。 As Lorde writes, there is ”a grave responsibility, projected from within each of us, not to settle for the convenient, the shoddy, the conventionally expected, nor the merely safe。”: In the end, I’m grateful that my work insists upon a degree of honesty that I am not brave enough to attempt in any other form。 I am even more grateful—really, immeasurably so—to have someone so willing to meet me there, whose love casts a net wide enough to catch me in all my confessions and cowardices。 ⁣: What I mean is that I have returned to the parts of my past that pained me and uncovered the aspects I most wanted to avoid。 I have grieved and I have taken responsibility。 I have revised the story of my victimhood and my culpability。 I have completed what was interrupted, what stuttered like a skipping record for decades。 I brought to it my questions, like some oracle, made myself a supplicant to the past, asked her what I could not when I was her, and told her what she could not tell herself。 Through this process, I have become able to love her。 ⁣ 。。。more

Beth Anne

If you need a reason to believe your story is worth telling, this book is for you。 I tore through the first 2/3 and was all in, then the last 1/3 made me a little skeptical but I think I was tired and so maybe my critical thinking goggles got fuzzy。

Jamie Cattanach

If you are a writer, you need this book。 Honestly you probably need this book even if you're not a writer。 If you are a writer, you need this book。 Honestly you probably need this book even if you're not a writer。 。。。more

Karen Boyle

I’m so happy to have discovered this writer and this book。 I’ve read so many books on how to write memoir。 Not only am I interested in writing and reading memoir, I am also fascinated by discussions of what should and shouldn’t be included in memoir。 Body Work is one of the best books I’ve read on memoir writing because Febos gives clear examples from her own writing about what has seemed necessary to include in order to be fair to other people discussed and to be brave about what needs to be sh I’m so happy to have discovered this writer and this book。 I’ve read so many books on how to write memoir。 Not only am I interested in writing and reading memoir, I am also fascinated by discussions of what should and shouldn’t be included in memoir。 Body Work is one of the best books I’ve read on memoir writing because Febos gives clear examples from her own writing about what has seemed necessary to include in order to be fair to other people discussed and to be brave about what needs to be shared。 。。。more

Esther O。 Lee

Will be thinking about the Mind Fuck essay for a long while。

Rose Peterson

This book is necessary for writers。 I loved so much about it that I couldn't keep myself from continually reading passages aloud to my friend on our recent road trip。 The first and last essays were my favorites (I loved the link between "beggin-ass songs" and hymns, and I'm forever grateful for the introduction to this Rilke quote: "The work of the eyes is done。 Go now and do the heart-work on the images imprisoned within you。") but the middle essays are still good, just geared more toward publi This book is necessary for writers。 I loved so much about it that I couldn't keep myself from continually reading passages aloud to my friend on our recent road trip。 The first and last essays were my favorites (I loved the link between "beggin-ass songs" and hymns, and I'm forever grateful for the introduction to this Rilke quote: "The work of the eyes is done。 Go now and do the heart-work on the images imprisoned within you。") but the middle essays are still good, just geared more toward publishing writers。 。。。more